4 Safe Ways to Explore the Submissive Role in Bed

Putting yourself in a submission scenario during sex can be plenty of fun - with the right skills and tips on hand. Submission is the perfect choice for those who can appreciate a good kink during sex or want to experience the act from a different perspective. Make no mistakes, submission requires following a few rules as you go but when done right, it can deliver a proper thrill.

And to get you started on the safe side, here are 4 ways to explore being submissive in bed.

Permissions

In a submissive mode during sex, there does not need to always be punishment for there to be permission. But permissions are a funny thing since they can mess up with your ego, and cause you to “misbehave”. And this is where mastering the skill of being submissive and waiting for permission matters. Punishment also doesn't have to b anything rigorous. For instance, you might dislike using objects but you might take punishment in the form of orgasm denial. Always do what makes you just enough comfortable and uncomfortable.

Impact Play

Again, for those who are not experienced in being submissive, impact play might sound scary. However, when you mention spanking and hand slapping as a form of teasing, suddenly everyone wants to listen. Well, spanking is the oldest form of impact play and if you are comfortable you can experiment with intensities and different objects. However, you can always use hands or a combination of both. With impact play, you don't want it to be something you do and then stop - it needs to be incorporated moderately throughout the act.

Role Play and Talking Dirty

Role-playing can be a superb booster for a submissive subplot. Role-playing a submissive role can make it easier to relax and get into the character, too. At the same time, talking dirty, in combination with the costume and setting, will make for a fiery hot tryst ahead. Good role play costumes for your submission scenarios include teacher-student, doctor-patient, or boss-employee. There is quite a power-play to use here so knock yourself out. As for talking dirty, a BDSM-friendly glossary will do you justice.

Bondage

And finally on your list of submissive tropes to consider is bondage. Again, handcuffs, belts, buckles, and blindfolds can all be part of the bigger picture and you don't have to settle for something you are not alright doing. But once you give consent, it is time to consensually lose it as part of your submissive character.