The Essential Boundaries to Establish with a VIP Escort

Whilst discussing boundaries with an escort might not be the first thing on your mind when making a booking - it is a pivotal step to go take in ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience for you both. Here are some of the key boundaries to discuss before going out for an escort date.

No Personal Information

Before you get started with an escort's service, the key rule to know is that no personal information on the two of you should be shared when on a date - or otherwise. Discretion during an escort date is to be maintained at all times since it is a critical factor in a well-spent booking. For maximum anonymity and discretion, the client and his escort should refrain from sharing their (full) names, addresses of residence, details of their personal lives, or phone numbers.

Discuss the Specifics of the Service

Another boundary to go over when meeting an escort has to do with the service the client chooses. Namely, whilst an escort service can include certain aspects the client prefers or likes, there might be things about the service that the client might want to amend. For instance, if you booked a hotel outcall but don't want to meet your escort at the hotel lobby or outside the building, let her know and check if the hotel you chose allows your guest to directly come up to your room.

Define the Payment Approach and Method

A key escort boundary to consider is the service payment. Escorts make a strict rule of not starting the date until the client has paid for the service they booked. Aside from paying for the service beforehand, you also need to consider the best payment method for the two of you. Namely, if the escort or the client - or both - are more comfortable with discreet payments, the cash option will be a far more suitable choice than, say, a bank transaction. However, some escorts might prefer to be paid via terminal, so discuss this aspect before the booking takes place.

Choose the Safest Meeting Spot

The truth is that when you book an escort date, you cannot meet up just about anywhere. Ideally, you want to first meet up at a hotel, so you can complete the payment for the service in a more private setting - and then continue the date in public. If meeting at your place, provide the escort with enough information on how to arrive at the destination safely and without being noticed.

The Dress Code

Finally, a clear boundary of meeting an escort - be it in private or in public - is the way she and you will dress. Overdressing is never advised unless you are going out for a celebration or are attending a more high-profile event. Ideally, casual outfits work the best for outings and outcalls, whereas dinner dates and plus-one events should entail a classier dress code, without overstepping the classy aspect.