The Safest Ways to Get Kinky in Bed

Oftentimes, when kinks are a matter of discussion, many will frown upon the idea as a whole. Typically, this will have to do with the fact that kinks are perceived as risky, wicked or unsafe to try. However, kinks have been around for centuries and have been adapted to fit every aficionado's taste and need. For those who keep saying ‘no' to kink play but are secretly curious about trying something like it, here are the safest ways to make a bedroom affair kinkier.

Aim for an Outdoor Setting

Speaking of the bedroom, you don't have to get started on the mattress at all. If you have a sexy night planned, you can add some kinky flair to it by opting for an outdoor scenario. Outdoor sex - and it does not have to go all the way, all the time - is among the most thrilling kinks to get your party started. Find a cosy spot on the hill and tease in your car, or choose a quiet beach to engage in some arousing. It sounds simple, yet it works like a charm.

Find a Mirror

Another way to make room for some kinks in your life is to become a voyeur - both of you that is.

So, find a mirror that is large enough to show all the action in its reflection, and take things slowly with an added dose of eroticism. Take each other's clothes, only communicate through the mirror, try your favourite standing position - the world of pleasures is your oyster.

Phone Calls Do the Trick

A superb way to kink things up in the bedroom is to engage in some good ole' phone calls. Sexy phone calls were quite the hot trend before technology took over, and can still add that mystery and thrill to the experience. Phones make it easier to relax and say anything that makes your heart beat faster, and a simple late-night call can do wonders for getting that arousal going.

Hotel Role-playing

This might be a pricier approach to making your sex life kinkier, and yet, hotels are always in favour of your enjoyment. Role-playing at a hotel can be superbly kinky - no one knows you, you can be anyone you want, talk the way you want and even dress up in a character you prefer. Plus, with an onsite bar at almost every hotel you'll book, your detective-victim scenarios can easily come to life and keep you entertained.