What Does a Dominatrix Professional Do and Doesn't?

There has been plenty of talk about the world of BDSM, and whilst it is sometimes publicly frowned upon, secretly - everyone goes wild for it. This is because BDSM can be as versatile as you want it to be in terms of setting, roles, intensity, etc.

One branch that falls into the BDSM world is being a dominatrix, and a good one. A professional dominatrix requires a particular set of skills, experience and knowledge and such a service can come at a price since it is a tiny tad ticklish to provide.

If you are not familiar with the profile of a professional dominatrix and her service, here is all to know about it.

The Service Specifics

There should never be any misunderstanding about the kind of service you will get from a dominatrix professional, which is why you need to do research and communicate with the lady. She will make sure to guide you through all details of her service, possibly her price, and the overall experience. She'll answer your questions and ease you into the experience if you are new to the service. But, it is not to be assumed that every dominatrix does the same kind of service. Some are just alright with using cuffs and light bondage. Others fulfil deeper needs, like role-playing and scenery-play. First decide what you want, then find a professional offering it.

They Will Ask Questions Too

A Dominatrix needs to know what feeds your soul fantasy-wise, so expect them to openly communicate this with you. And likewise, you have to return the favour and share all about your specific fantasies, expectations and desires. Only through transparent communication and trust will you get the kind of dominatrix fate you were hoping for. In asking you questions, your Dominatrix will also want to know about any boundaries you have - and tell you hers.

She Might Push You

It is in the nature of a Dominatrix to push you over the edge of pleasure and sometimes, discomfort. However, all of it is benevolent and serves to tick all the right boxes of the arousing and forbidden. But, if you are headed to see a Dominatrix, you surely don't expect her to go vanilla on you, right? As long as you have clear boundaries, a safeword, and open communication, a bit of pressure might just do the trick.

Nudity is Under Question

Just because you will be exploring your sexuality in the nude, it does not necessarily mean that a Dominatrix will, too. What's more, most Dominatrixes only perform the service of being a Dom, and there is nothing more to it. Otherwise, the other person might see this as a reward instead of a challenge, which loses the charm of being told what to do by a bondage goddess. And while speaking of nudity, whilst you will be exposed in various ways, it will only be this sexual stimulation you will get with a Dom. Rarely do any Doms engage in more than basic physical contact.